Fun

I went out last night. I mean...I went out without children...without my husband. It was nighttime too. I can't remember the last time that happened...must be at least a year.

I took Bart into the city...and the lovely Diana picked me up at the station. Wasn't that lovely of her? We went back to her apartment...where we drank Stellas and watched her new kitten sit in the recycling pile. We also decided that we will get gold fish and name them love handles and muffin top.

Then...we went to see Mortified at the Makeout Room in the Mission. It was so funny. Oh how we laughed... But really...it was god damned funny...and if you get a chance to see the show...see it.

After the show ended...you know what we did? We got ginormous steak burritos!! After that...we took a cab back to her place...and ate the burritos in their entirety...with chips. Then we sat and watched her kitten play with balls of tin foil.

Boy oh boy...am I tired today...but it was all worth it.

heh heh heh

I'm not sure what Ole is doing to Luke...but it can't be good. 

All good things must come to an end

I'm going back to work tomorrow.
I'm sad.
Sad about leaving Luke. He'll cry. He'll cry a lot. I'm sad about leaving Ole. He cried before bed because he wants me "to be here always."

Another first

Luke ate his first bowl of rice cereal Saturday. His emotions swung wildly. I'm still not sure if he liked it or not...but you can see for yourself here. 

I am a soccer mom

Ole had his first soccer game today. And he is way cuter than Becks...

If you want to see the rest of the pics (they are fucking adorable)...go here. 

Self Portrait

 

Quality Time

Me (with much excitement in my voice): "How was your first day of school?"
Ole (muttering): "Stupid."
Me (ignoring what he said): "What did you do?"
Ole (like he can't believe what an idiot his mother is): "Nothing."

First Day

Oh my god. Today is his first day of kindergarten. I can't believe it. 

He was so brave. He didn't even cry.

gross

I hate this guy.

Thanks for asking though...

Ole: "Can I burp him?"
Me: "No. Not right now."
Ole: "Can I fart him?"

brothers...

 

Pardon my language

My sweet, sweet boy was playing with a new toy yesterday when it stopped working...and this is what he said:

"Stupid motherfucker."

Even though he had spent the day with his grandmother, Rune decided to ask him where he learned that word. At first he didn't want to name names...but after some pressure from his dad, he did. It was some kid at camp.

I still think he was covering up for my mother. 

Shhhhhh

Both kids are still asleep! I'm not quite sure what to do with myself. I've had my coffee and made Ole's lunch. I've gotten dressed and put on makeup. I've swept the floor.

And. They're. Still. ASLEEP.

WOW.

This may be the best morning of my life. Is that wrong?

Luke and Noah

 

Luke

Look at his little furrowed brow... 

Big Brother

Here he is on Saturday morning. He's eating scrambled eggs and toast (which he made)...watching a movie...and soothing his fussy brother by bouncing the baby chair with his foot. 

My Little Housekeeper

So he's decided he likes to vacuum...but this is how he does it. He turns over the vacuum...picks up stuff from the rug...and then drops...the dirt, cat fur, sand, crumbs or whatever...into the suction of the vacuum.

What's really fun...is for him to say, "Mama...pretend this (clump of fur) is you...and you're being dropped into this tube." 

 

The story you're about to read is true...

It happened a relative of mine whose name I shall not reveal...but those of you who know her will know exactly who wrote the following story...which she titled "My Big Butt Saved My Life"

As you know...I have an attic over my garage. It usedto be un-usable--
it was just 2x4s with insulation inbetween the beams, and sheetrock beneath
theinsulation, creating the ceiling of my garage. About15 years ago, we
put plywood 4x8s over the beams,creating a sort of subfloor. That enabled
me to store stuff up there.

For years, my parents have obsessed over the attic floor. "One day that ceiling is gonna fall down onyour head and kill you or Laura." They based this--well, they based this on their usual fear thatthe worst is going to happen. Beyond that, they based it on a hole created in the garage ceiling...when something slipped between the 4x8s and poked throughthe sheetrock.

Anyway...to make a long story longer, I remember being horrified when my dad's guys were redoing the attic floor. I got home one day to findthe hugest beam I had ever seen bisecting my garage ceiling, held up by the second hugest beam I'd ever seen running vertically from garage floor to ceiling, held up by what appeared to be jacks...like the ones you use on your car when you have a flat. Very ghetto, and-I thought-worse than what they set out to repair in the first place. Apparently the floor-to-ceiling beam and jack getup was temporary.

Eventually, they removed the vertical beam from the center of my garage, installed new light fixtures, sheetrocked the garage ceiling, andthat was the end of that. i thought the whole thing was a huge waste of money,even though it wasn't my money. Still...if someone was gonna spend money on my house, I would have preferred a new living room floor.

Onward.

This evening, I decided to refinish a couple of chairs. I climbed up into the attic, to find the chairs. I lowered the first one through the attic"doorway" ...which is really just a framed hole in the middle of the attic floor, attached to the ladder/stairway. Laura was down in the garage, grabbing the chairs as I lowered them down. It's the first time I've been in the attic since my dad's big improvement project. I thought it
looked different. Less complete than before. That couldn'tbe right. My dad's guys spent days rehabbing the attic floor. The whole point was to strengthen it. Not that I thought it needed strengthening in the first place. But that's beside the point.

In any event, something didn't look right. It's as if some of the subfloor was missing. Or something. Hmn. As I lowered the last chair down to the garage, I moved my foot to a better position. After all, I was basically straddling this hole in the floor, lowering the chair, leaning down-head first. Can you visualize that? A precarious position.

I wanted to have solid footing. So I moved my foot off the beam onto the flooring, and BAM! Or maybe it was more like"CRUNCH!" My foot slipped off what I THOUGHT was flooring, but turned out to be more like a piece of board, carelessly tossed onto what turned out to be several little PIECES of wood. Pieces, mind you...like one inch thick, maybe four inches wide, maybe 18 to 24inches long. Like the wood they use on wine crates. A handful of those laid together to LOOK like the 4x8that USED to be there. When I stepped onto that, they just slipped off to the side, and my foot plunged right through the sheetrock and I grabbed a vertical support beam as my rear end came to rest on a coupleof brass pipes running across the attic floor for I don't know what purpose.

Fuck.

At least those were solidly attached to something. Not that I planned it that way or anything. Laura screams. I have NO idea what sound I made. But thank god I'm neurotic when I do dirty work, and I was wearing rubber gloves, or I surely would have lost mygrip on the beam. Laura's down below me freaking out. "Mama...are
you okay? Are you gonna fall the rest ofthe way through? What do I do? Do I call 911? Can you hang on? What do I DO?!?!??!?"

Meanwhile, I'm in a really bad position. One leg is all the way through the floor, dangling into the garage. I'm literally holding myself in place withone arm hugging this beam...and I'm perched in a sortof sitting position on these horizontal pipes that caught my butt. It was enough time to wonder...did my substantial posterior save my life? OR... did it nearly get me killed? (we later decided it saved me. as laura points out, even if i still weighed only 100 pounds, there's no way the 1/2 inch sheetrock would have held me up. i still would have fallen through.and if i still weighed 100, it's quite possible iwould have been thin enough to slip right through,without my rear end getting hung up on the horizontal pipes. hmn. "woman's fat ass saves her life")

So...I'm hanging on, and I'm really shook. It was like the scene in the action movie when the good guy is hanging on with one hand...and it's starting to slip. I'm trying to figure out the safest thing to put my other hand on...to get my balance...while I haul myself up and out of the hole. But I no longer trust anything up there. What if I choose something else that looks solid...and IT turns out to be flimsy? These copper pipes can't possibly hold me...they're only an inch thick and they're only pipes...and who knows what they're connected to. Plus my heart is pounding. I can't believe
I'm dangling half through the attic floor... ten feet above the concrete floor of my garage. Or is it twelve feet? Either way... it's longer than I want to fall.

All the while Laura is down below, shrieking"Mom...what do I do? What do I do?" I told her to just hang on while I figure it out. I reached up and grabbed another beam, one which I'm pretty sure existed before my dad's ace rehab job. I slowly pull myself up and out of the hole... doing a kind of shimmy thing to squeeze back through the hole without disturbing anythiing else. I hook my leg up and over the frame of the attic opening. Then I just sat at the top of the ladder for about a minute, sweating & waiting for my heart to stop pounding.

There's a mess of debris on the garage floor, and several big slices of sheetrock, and a scattering of the stupid pieces of wood that some shortcuttingjackass tucked together to LOOK like a solid floor.

As I sat in the kitchen pressing a bag of frozen peas onto my right knee, I remember when my dad had his guy(his 1976 guy, who went by the name Abdul) fix the brakes on my old VW bug. Abdul put them in backwards.

My right leg is scraped up and my knee is swollen and bruised... and three hours
later, my left arm now feels a little wrenched, and I've got bruises on my right
arm and NO idea how they even got there. All of which is much better than
going splat on the concrete floor.